My Biography

 

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My Name's Andri Hardiansyah. This is the name of papaku (ayahanda). Initially grandfather offers Aan Hardian name, but then replace it with the father Andri Hardiansyah. Without a fierce debate, grandfather and father agree Andri Hardiansyah to be name.

The full, so do not myself know very well nasab's mama or papaku. Nasab's mamaku Elly Harnelly namely H. Iyon Taryana (alm) origin Tasikmalaya and Hj. Rochaeni Baafi Soreang origin, Kab. Bandung. While nasab Suryana's papaku law, namely Hj. Siti Khadijah (almh) and H. Abdullah (alm) Limbangan origin, Garut.

If wajahku attention, many people menilaiku come from Arab descent. I do not deny it, The grandmother of mama bemarga Baafi, but this clan Bafi down if it can not be brought by women as well as other clans such as the descendants of Arab Sungkar, Fuad, Assegaf, al-Juffry and others.

Papaku, Law, comes from the Garut Limbangan. He was a trader ice blocks that can be found behind the health Limbangan, exactly in the street to the Cibiuk and Cijapati. At first he lived in Tangerang, but not the power of hiding the economic crisis 97 years ago-an, and then move and settle in Limbangan.

Situated in the hospital Ranca Badak (RSHS) Bandung, I was born on 23 October 1983. In the year that also, kembarku Fulan brother died when born, so far I am including one child who is always spoiled by the mother, because if you do not think mamaku brother kembarku may be that I died at that time.

The fate of less fortunate has been kualami since the age of four years. Mama and papa, and I have divorced mama had to be brought to Bandung and berbaur with the grandfather and grandmother who enjoy middle kejayaannya as goat meat traders in Pasar Baru Bandung. When the age of 7 years, the mama was a single parent aged 24 years will worry the front lour. Then start pendidikanku attention. At that time, I registered at the kindergarten in the Assalaam dirintis by renowned scholars NU Ustman Habib Al-Aydarus Gantung Sasak in the area of Bandung.

With seasonal work as a cosmetic bride, Sinden splash of water penikahan, even willing to be a mama dancers jaipongan I pay for school, the profession dijalaninya Alhamdulillah mama pendidikanku able to finance the primary school level education in the Foundation with the same kindergarten.

 in SD Assalaam in, I am of the students are active. Since the four classes, I have been active in  Force Flag (Paskibra), and always be master of ceremonies be regarded as a voice loud and strong. In spite of active and hours learning the subject, but prestasiku in class I always look. At that time they are listed in the ranking raporku never exceed two-digit numbers. Top achievement kuraih that, I earn SPP scholarship free from class four to six classes, I even had time to become a primary school to become a deputy representative selection of students as example the city of Bandung, together with 4 other friends. But as the preparations that are less mature, I failed in the selection of the district level.

Boarding educate LIFE AND Struggle concerned

My wheel of life search for growth and knowledge that is focused mamaku to deep religious knowledge. Mama worried I soon fell to kebathilan, so I registered to Pontren Al-Qur'an Al-Falah, Cicalengka. In addition to the education of Madrasah Tsanawiyah (MTs), I became santri stay there. Many things that I get in the city santri, the start of deep religious knowledge, to be organized pengalam love affairs.

A week in Al-Falah, still can not adapt to the pattern of life there. Could not, I must merelakan to reduce the time to sleep. I usually wake up when the sun feels warm on your skin, but there about 3 minutes dawn keeper boarding often membangunkanku with a loud voice. If you do not wake up, staggerer rattan is usually cut to my leg, then forced a surefire sense of drowsiness I was facing. Not only that, for the food business seems I must be patient. The arrangement for the course I have to eat in the kitchen mengantri general. Similarly, for matters bathing, washing clothes, to dispose of intent for business. But over time kusadari that it has become a part of life santri hikmahnya embed the attitude and the discipline to educate themselves living are concerned.

As well as the environment in general, boarding, boarding Asatidz in educating santrinya hard. Although sometimes feel that violence is excessive, but overall I am grateful to the asatidz that I have been educated in a way that is very hard. Sometimes even militaristic.

One of the important education that I get from asatidz at Al-Falah is in the field of the Al-qur-an. This is known as pesantren pesantren that have more expertise in this field. Book, I learned a basic first step, starting from hidayatushibyan, hidayatul mustafid, and jazariyyah. That is the text of the standard classical learned santri-santri in the field of Al-qur-an.

Alqur have an administration-how to read the complexity may be the same as or even exceed the Latin. A hard upbringing in the field of Al-qur-aan asatidz of the former boarding leave this important on myself, that is, the discipline in thinking and careful reading in the Al-qur-an. Because of my upbringing, she also has a deep devotion to the Al-qur-an. Originally I just love of Al-qur-an, for Al-qur-an that's the first time taught systematically and "scientific" in the Al-Falah boarding.

LOVE ALTERED TO FIRST

Hawa hawa-pubertas appears already meraksuk into the hearts, so that feelings of love for a woman can not even checked. Despite early age to be calculated puber, but at that time I have been impressed by the beauty Rani Nurhayati, santri daughter home Cibuntu, Bandung. It seems that I fall in love at first sight. I meet with him early in the secretariat of pesantren, he smiled to me, so I terpanah love, I want to say that I mencintainya, only that I love him, only the shadow of my face which is always remember, no kumenahan power fluctuation in the chest until I am stunned at the very first sight, my heart also wonder: inikah called love? How beautiful. Want to feel like this forever.

After that, the day-hariku always cheerful, and I always merindukannya at any time. If it does not meet with them, perasaanku always nervous. At that time, I feel Cintaku so big? While previous perasaanku not interested to a woman. But this one girl who seems to be different. My heart is glued to him. How does not, the high slender body, the shape alisnya although not carved with a razor blade, a reddish-colored and berlesung. I believe only men or less who do not have a normal sense at all to him.

LOVE CAN ACCESS ALL ROOMS

My Attracktion to Rani continues. But I am confused how to express love to him. Isn'T express love, to mendekatinya was very difficult. Know .... association between santri son with santri daughter is very limited, as well as for the environment are already separate dormitories. Similarly, if the theory or school.

But slowly I find a safe medium to communicate with them without breaching restrictions that have been determined by the tender boarding. At that time, I try to find some senior santri notabene the pair have known in the girls dormitory. According to the gossip circulating, their usual "unite for" the party through the mail. I shall consult with the senior sermon to ask the make of them. With the seemingly happy, give them some tricks that can love letter to the worship of the heart.

I am trying to run what they have suggested. I Tried wrote a string of words over some pretty special sheet of paper to write a love letter that I deliberately buy the book store that is located in seputaran market Cicalengka. Sepucuk love letter that I write kukirimkan mother comblang through the normal channels of communication open Balada love-senior senior at Pesantren. This activity also took place several times with the same mother comblang. Occasionally terpikirkan olehku to provide such compensation to the mother comblang up some mail that is delivered and a reply letter. But outside the allegations seriously, he refused. Perhaps he was aware of love in the presence of the human eye can not be denied again.

Love is ruh man. Ruh that menggerakan man to have, to communicate, be neighbors, and even related. So if ruh is lost, people are no longer led by affection. So that people can only dirasuki by incitement Syetan, namely hatred, boastfulness, insubordination, and others. I also recognize that if the habit telak kulakukan I have been smashed. Pesantren as sub-culture of a cultural sciences teach about the religion of a typical boarding. Institutions that also have a tradition of religious law is so fanatical about the association is still thick until now. Even some of Kyai forbid each other to send a letter santri love each other, because they make the rate of a letter is absolutely natural, because the emotions of the soul to play the second marriage for the pair outside the "berimajinasi".

One of the things never forget. Only with some love letter that I send to Rani, all dibalas with words that indicate that have the same feelings as well as perasaanku. Interaction love like this if I continue, until the mid-year'98: Rani and I officially engaged.

At that time, I presume to come to his house when the holidays arrive. I express love to him. With the sweet smile, Rani says: yes, as a sign of receiving Cintaku. Liburpun period has been completed, the automatic regulation was boarding membatasiku back to chatting with him. But it's not so great a barrier to menjegal hubunganku with. The Rani and I were active in the OSIS. Although different sections, but I often get the chance to release chatting with nostalgia, if any meetings or activities held. Itupun with stealth or friend accompanied OSIS the other so that the administrator does not suspicious

When Love become motivation

Love is not love lust and sin is not charged by God to men. But, love is a gift and disposition given to every man. Because there is no any teachings which prohibit people to love and feel for each other. Because cintalah, people can live in peace bersandingan.

Many of the theory of love that I feel, as well as indicators of love, one can not say if it is not love based on a few things: love must be based on feelings that have to dicintainya; love should be based on awe or pride; love should be based on feelings of real sacrifice. But be careful if you are over-indicator will be misleading the appetite. Because, according to the friend, Aji, restriction is passionately in love with the slim. But if we are able memenejnya, the indicator may be a motivation. For example, motivated by love, a mother motivated to contain the strong potential for children nine months 10 days. Based on love.

Fostered by the feeling of love, a child is very motivated to complete a university degree in order to make both parents. The same story at that time, because the feeling of love is encouraged, I am of the santri diligent enough. Before arriving santri the other (to implement the prayer), I come early. If the combination of theory santri son and daughter held, with the device I sigapnya theory. Similarly, if the patrol (keja devote) with dilaksanakann hours of Sunday, I am sure that most busy mosque carpet rolls, and even open the curtains with it.

Not apart from the values of sincerity, I do all of that because bertatapan want to face with the beloved, send each other snacks, or send love letters. This is I can do it easily. How does not, the mosque in the Al-Falah is very close to the girls dormitory environment. Moreover kobong She or two-room place Rani is about 30 meters from the mosque door corridor.

Rani is very big influence in my life,. Each letter that he submitted, the form of the word praise, kekagumannya on myself, or about kinerjaku in OSIS. Some expressions that he goreskan in suratnya make me more excited to pro-active in every activity of any kind was held in or not in the MT. Pondok al-Qur-an al-Falah, so people call. Not quite famous in the West, because the nurse pondok pesantren charisma was famous. He is a renowned scholars with the vote in the toss al-Qur-an, KH Ahmad Syahid.

Pesantren this there are also curriculum-based boarding a quite promising for a santri. This is based on a curriculum that is used in pesantren is quite competent. This pesantren taught various subjects of religion be regarded enough depth, especially the education of the al-qur-an.

Under the guidance asatidz berkulitas in terms of scientific keagamaanya, I grew into her teenage full of religious firmament. In the field of direct commentary led by KH Ahmad martyr; in the field of fiqh, studying under the guidance of H. Abdul Karim and Makhtum Solihin. Once the severity of education that they apply, the attitude and discipline does not have the least tolerance for others who do wrong. Under the guidance ustadz Nurul Iman, learn how to introduce themselves on the Control Taqdir. No escape, a teacher who is very meritorious to me that often teaches that life is always to be flexible and whoever and whatever the condition is that menimpanya Alm. Ahmad Abdullah Masturi.

I always be the best in the Madrasah Al-Falah Tsanawiyyah. The seed of happiness Relationship with Rani I made the free expression, even the inspiration to contribute creative ideas for progress boarding, as well as when there is no search talent and ability and interest in boarding santri, I propose that directly to the Ajengan Syahid (boarding nurse) so formed unit santri activities in accordance with the new talent that santri have. For example, if santri have interests and talents to improve the capabilities in the field of calligraphy, it must be developed through a unit of the dig santri potential in the field of calligraphy. The same with the other. My idea blossom from several units santri activities, such as the English Institute, Scout, Team paskibra, Study calligraphy, to complete the Institute Arabic Al-Falah, and Takhosus for Qiro'at, who has been there.

With some units growth activities santri a new, positive direspon by the santri. When I was not only a penggagas, but I also became a pioneer, especially for scout activities and institutions, and English. The two areas that I consider the most suitable with the talent and ability that I have. Section I want to re-develop the basic technique and scouts who have the English language I learned in elementary school before Assalaam.

Struggle with friends to build a boarding my best friend with various units of santri apparently had a positive impact for the boarding of progress, as well as some santri mainstay followed various inter-school competition. Even several times a champion during OSIS Management, led olehku. I also sometimes become a part of school, especially race-related race with the English language, like English Speech competition, and Debat in English.

I Bergabungnya Institute in English (LBI) was led by Dudi Iskandar, a graduate English teacher Kediri. Together with other colleagues, Rizky, Aji Rahmadi, Taufik Ramdani, we fought hard, because it can not be denied the English language institutions get less attention from the serious boarding parties, especially the problem of funds. However, because of all the activities done in English militants, loop back menjadikanku the rather patriarch before his friends and other teachers.

I 'm  coerciounist but behind my coercios that is  goodness worth

At that time, be regarded basket expensive sport. For in addition to the absence of a basketball field, santri more likely pleased with the sports that football at that time by Mr. Budi digawangi as a sports teacher Trainer plus the closest to the students. But because there is another invitation from the school that a basketball competition between junior-se Bandung East (at that time al-ma'soem as The Organizer), I play so that the brain can still participate in these competitions. I use various carapun lobbying council for teachers and the foundation. Finally, schools and foundations also approves basketball team and the "sudden" alpha can also participate in the race, even if it should lose out on qualifying. At least it makes a bit of pride and progress for the Al-Falah School. Besides that, I also always tried hard to ensure that all the programs that have been designed by the cabinet prosperity that I can arrange to run, even if only one time. My Spirit such as become a leader be a number of other students. I run with good organization OSIS. I was not only the meritorious against OSIS, but at least the way of my think developed together with the management of range OSIS other one made a number of other forces. Section I always emphasize a few things, which is organized must be active, creative, innovative, and Cualifaid to become an organizational history of sculpture. Although the pattern of my leadership  sometime considered arogan and dictator, and often the difference between going with the understanding that culminate in the commotion, a small commotion.

With my spirit like that, at that time I start known, santri either men or women santri. But not flawless, because human beings are also not perfect. I am also young people, enjoy the ever-court time is certainly a matter that is prohibited dipesantren. Various ways, including the person who I am, trying to get attention and would be met with people who have stolen my heart.

Rani Nurhayati, santri daughter who has membuatku "Fall In Love" is a high Valueable women slender, beautiful and smart, too joined in the management of OSIS. At least, the opportunity together even bigger, because the co-organizer OSIS. Usually after a meeting OSIS, Rani and I menyempatkan a little time just to chat, even though in my heart a little afraid discovered.

How it Cleaver squirrel jump eventually fall as well. Pribahasa that may be appropriate to describe some "forbidden love" that occurred in the boarding. It is I, Ami, Hafidz and other friends who caught some by wet son and daughter of an administrator, because the date in the middle of the night near the Hall-boarding we call the "ladder of love."

The beauty of our love affair was a little disturbed. The daughter of an administrator, especially "The Goddess Sarah" so-called daughter santri, extraordinarily angry. Rani and daughter santri some couples who have a penalty imposed by management. But, as all imbasnya santri punishment is "preventive" to "Love in the Holy behind prison" does not spread to the entire santri.

Balancer malignancy with good

After news spread of some of the management of OSIS daughter, if the couple has daughter tercium-geriknya movement as a partner, was implied in pikiranku to improve the image in the eyes of the angkatanku Pesantren superintendent. Although the mutiny had heart, I love it banned? At that time, the event coincided with the moment per9ingatan independence of the Republic of Indonesia, as the head of the OSIS I was appointed by H. Abdul Makhtum the boarding Rois for the commemoration activities HUT RI.

I also accept the bid. Although the funds sober, I assisted by friends seangkatanku some of the competition which is held merakyat if an 17-arrived with a very rousing. Until at the time when the prize, the evening peak of our creative arts with typical santri. Almost all the participating enliven the event. At that time, I get the spring: if santri daughter will be showing a short musical drama recounts the love of a mother.

As if did not want to lose, we were, santri son, unexpected drama exercises. The only son of santri comedy show is a drama that recounts some of the profession with the funny characters. Want to add meaning to be that character totality we can show the role perfectly and reduce feelings of shame, we are refining our faces with the powder so the added thickness and scratches lipstick thick in some parts of our face. When I was a role as a fitter peuyeum (tape). Some opponents mainku, Hafidz, Amy, and the Aji Gunawan Double dissolvent atmosphere, taking the role of powerless, corrupt officials, students and teachers.

Although without a clear concept, but the drama was able to make all the audience laughter. Row over the table from some of our class bucket before the event begins, we are able to improvisationi. Surefire cheer when we appear sorai gust excitement and cheers also sounded warm atmosphere, especially when our little bumbui with some criticism about love. Criticism, we go to the boarding daughter that we are too over the Protective santrinya. Despite feeling a bit if there is criticism that we submit through a drama, the management of boarding berimbas nagging daughter because they do not accept criticism that we submit.

Hence once we get off stage, it appeared that nothing happens. In fact, there are some positive responses from our friends if we look near perfect. There's drama is that we show the action teaterikal first shown on boarding.

Several weeks after that appearance, rumor boarding daughter back stretch. The Rani and a few friends who have called the pair back the management of boarding daughter. Flogging punishment effect, such as clean the mosque, and Bath room daughter and other penalties should they Go. The son pair, including me, is exposed to the same. However, only a moral sanction and the only course that we receive.

It does not menyurutkan me to stay in touch with Rani. Feelings kangenku unbearable. I want to know the newspaper he was at that time. Advised after the first, we do not send another letter. To this time, I think another way, so that movement-geriku not suspected, I try to communicate through the book. Book with a feeling that I my of missing expresion  to the OSIS  daughter.

And in the replies, Rani confirm the rumor going. Rani order so that our relationship had to be stopped temporarily. Rani decisions that I write seems to be received. This I do for the good of both of us.

Some sunday after pemanggilanku by boarding parties, I make a back slap. At that time, I invite all angkatanku to membenahi some infrastructure in pesantren, such as fencing in each room that was not there, and a laundry pole when it is relatively less. Only the capital with the will, we bring some of the bamboo stalk of bamboo forest that distance is not far from boarding. Neck and neck we split some of it to be a bamboo fence and laundry pole. Alhamdulillah business we do not futile, we get the trust back from the administrator until boarding time of boarding.

Pesantren after graduation in 1999, I continue to educate at SMK Prakarya International Electrical Installation department. At that time I sikapku in the face many problems have not changed. Just when I dealt with the issue of women, all terabaikan, even this may be spelled I traumatis. While sitting in class 1 SMK, I am still in touch with Rani, but because there are some problems that each would not give in, we ultimately choose to separate. Rani to forget, I am again active in several organizations in school, especially OSIS. I became Chairman of the public again.

Unlike the time in Pesantren, the SMK Prakarya I do not make a booming activity, because I am more in the academic Konsen. Alhamdulillah for achievement in business class, I am still number one. In fact, I became a student of 18 nominations example se-held city Pendididikan and Cultural Office in Bandung. Besides, I prefer a pro-active in several organizations at home, and I am also active in the Mosque Nurul Huda, Nurul Hidayah Mosque and Al-Hikmah Mosque as teachers. From mosque to mosque, I met with some of the santri notabene their different age from a few years.

MY gender Instinctive is so hot at that time. Could not, I feel there is a blank space in my life. I am interested in the santriku, Neysa Wulansari. My Relation with Wulan  be regarded with a very long time. However, because there is something that, the relationship we fail again. Since then until now, I still menjomblo. However, Rani married Riana Firdaus. I know her, because she is a teacher at the boarding ngajiku first. While Wulan, now has a paramour.

Together with colleagues Agus Malik Ibrahim, Sri MULYATI, Umi, Aji Rahmadi, Adi, Dawami and the other, I paguyuban establish that the Alpha 99 that is the key at all. I am very active in the meetings held by this organization is in between my activitty to be a student enrolled in the UIN Bandung as well as a presenter and reporter in PJTV Bandung. ***

Andri Hardiansyah, Student Department KPI UIN Sunan Gunung Djati Bandung